depending on what you want. if you are willing to tolerate some body contact, they might be able to make life easier for you. but in my view, I would rather work hard  than to tolerate that. So what i do is, to treat them with respect, draw boundaries tactfully, work hard and never think of taking advantage of unprofessional favors, after a few attempts, they usually can tell what kind of person you are and most of them i met respect that. it could get tricky sometimes. but I figure this is better for me in the long run and I can sleep tight at night this way.

just my 2 cents.

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