回复 19楼chinadrachen的帖子[/url]只能说俩人也没有到非她不娶非他不嫁的程度，大家都视对方为鸡肋，叔叔的话只是导火索
情到深处是沧桑 发表于 2021-07-26 14:07
我个人的观点取向是 如此 sort out this information:
能明白你對分析候選人是否合適當你配偶的要求。
雖然片面的看來對於一些思維而言：「感觉分手得很无厘头」，當我想到樓主故事前文後理中的細節內容後，從理性上分析就看到分手就分得很理有固然了。
就如我先生與他前妻的故事細節，當初我先生不知道“The Waiter Test”，分明他前妻是不及格的，可是pass under his radar. 後來他才知道 “The Waiter Test”而且做了retrospective。
“There's a concept called "The Waiter Test". This test basically works by revealing an insight into a person's true character based on how they treat restaurant waiters (or waitresses), or other customer service staff. For example, during a dining outing, the waiter messes up your order.”