个人建议，仅供参考啊！ Sample 1 前几句没有什么问题。这里： Guy: like 20 years I think - i used to be good, but was terrible last weekend! No big plans for the week, what about u Me: 20 years is a long time, you must be a pro! You should teach me some basics of golfing sometimes. I always wanted to learn, but never had the opportunity. Most of my friends are homebodies, or like shopping too much. Regarding the week, I just got back from XXX. Spent some time with my family. Would you have time for a quick coffee or lunch this weekend? Maybe we can get to know each other a little bit more 😊 Sample 2: Guy: Hi XXXXXX! What’s something you’ve learned to cook recently? Me: I’ve tried miso salmon tofu recently. Sooooo good!!! What type of food you like? Guy: Oh wow that sounds great! I’m a big salmon eater. I’m not a great chef but I found a seafood paella recipe online recently, and it turned out really well! Easier than I thought. Me: Paella sounds amazing, it requires many different kinds of seafood to make though. I am pretty good at doing science, so I am pretty good in the kitchen too! Guy: Haha true! I think it’s also a creative expression. So I guess it’s both an art and a science! A piece of art that exists only for a few minutes and then is gone forever Me: definitely, would you be interested cooking something together? My kitchen is pretty nice. 如果觉得第一次见面到家里不合适的话可以： I have heard great things about this xxx market, would you like to go to check it out this weekend?