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markbb

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dafega

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-1-19 17:02:25编辑过]

icecreamgreentea

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最好是自己努力工作，已出色的成绩引起别人的注意，这样你就不用担心如何去交朋友，同事们会主动来找你。要是你不想太辛苦，就要主动去找别人，脸皮要厚，Ａ拒绝和你一起吃午餐，就去找Ｂ，总会有人愿意和你接触。不过要是别人觉得你没有什么利用价值，除非是很ＮＩＣＥ的人，一般人只会和你保持淡淡的交往，不会化心思主动来找你的。

markbb

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那跟40、50岁的同事之间，有何共同话题呢？

gleaebb

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是不是可以跟hr的人要求给你assign一个buddy? 还有其他组的根你差不多level的同事，你一样可以跟他们吃午饭的。我也发现跟上级，尤其sinior manager以上的，沟通起来觉得似乎有些紧张，而且比较难找出话题，不过刚开始总是要经过一段磨合期，才能慢慢发现根什么样的人怎么相处，我们一起慢慢加油吧

graceshcn

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争取经常和别人一起吃午饭.我BF刚工作一个月,每天直接管他的manager都叫他一起吃饭.

Caffeine

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if nobody asks you to go out for lunch, you can ask other people to do so.

markbb

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看来要厚着脸皮去找别人起一吃饭去了。我们组偏偏还是男士多，真是不太好意思找他们去吃饭啊。

我们的办公室还分散在不同的楼层，group里其他人的办公室总是连在一起，我的就隔的比较远，郁闷。

[此贴子已经被作者于2006-7-30 14:22:05编辑过]

Caffeine

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以下是引用markbb在2006-7-30 14:20:00的发言：

看来要厚着脸皮去找别人起一吃饭去了。我们组偏偏还是男士多，真是不太好意思找他们去吃饭啊。

我们的办公室还分散在不同的楼层，group里其他人的办公室总是连在一起，我的就隔的比较远，郁闷。

it's totally up to you to social with existing coworkers, but not the other way around. They will come to chat with you if they are really, really nice, but in general, nobody knows you unless you introduce yourself to the guys.

don't be shy about asking for guys to grab lunch. It's really no big deal at all. I asked a guy out for lunch in my first day because other ppl were out for a conference. He paid for the lunch, we chatted, and then I bought him coffee and bronies, etc. later on. We are now buddies. It only took days for me to get familiar with a couple of other guys. when it comes to work, personally I don't think gender matters. They are all my coworkers, men or women:-) Don't worry:-)

up2u

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以下是引用Caffeine在2006-8-1 13:58:00的发言：

it's totally up to you to social with existing coworkers, but not the other way around. They will come to chat with you if they are really, really nice, but in general, nobody knows you unless you introduce yourself to the guys.

don't be shy about asking for guys to grab lunch. It's really no big deal at all. I asked a guy out for lunch in my first day because other ppl were out for a conference. He paid for the lunch, we chatted, and then I bought him coffee and bronies, etc. later on. We are now buddies. It only took days for me to get familiar with a couple of other guys. when it comes to work, personally I don't think gender matters. They are all my coworkers, men or women:-) Don't worry:-)

It's a really good suggestion :)