我知道自己不是那种能力很强, 或者很精明的人. 平时依赖性比较强. 生活上的还可以, 主要是工作上吧.

想请教一下大家, 如果碰到工作或者学习上的问题, 不是技术性的问题, 自己不知道该怎么办的时候, 大家都是怎么处理的啊? 比如说不小心说错话, 或者没有防人之心, 结果被人背后说不好的话. 其实就是不安会处理同事和同学的关系. 只会死读书, 我也知道自己的毛病, 可是不知道怎么该...

知道这里的姐妹都非常能干, 聪明. 还有很多找到了理想的工作, 并同时拿到了好几个offer. 我觉得光会做事情是不够的, 可是真的不知道怎么处那些个关系. 我比较直, 没有太多心眼, 也不是很爱说话, 后来发现周围的人问你的事情很多是有目的的.而自己傻傻的

I have the same feeling. When I just started my study in our department, I was busy with those studies and languages. I did not pay much attention to the relationship with colleagues and classmates because of language prob and personality.

When I realize this issue, it is a kind of late and the impression was there and hard to change.

This is often a problem

My suggestion is that you can learn how to listen first. To listen what other people's real intention. and then observe what happen around you.

if you are not sure what to say, just say something positive. avoid any negative comments when you are not sure what is the consequence.