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happyday5

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My father is gone, I have to say "something wrong"

This morning I got the news: my father is gone and my brothers and sisters did everything for the funeral. I was so so sad, and angry with myself. Because I did nothing. I didn't go back home for almost 3 years. For what???? For this stupid job and Green Card? The news is a hit to me. I am thinking about going back to work in china in the future. My family and I sacrified too much for my job and life in usa. My mind is a total mess. What a life it is here!! No parents, no sisters, no relatives.

hanhan_chen

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I am sorry to hear this. Don't be too upset. Take care.

wuwuwu

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节哀， MM。

回家看看吧。你妈妈现在需要你。

dielectric

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抱一下，你也不想得

别太自责了

保重啊

Webcat

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不知怎么安慰你才好　　其实就算是你在国内能做的也很有限　　主要是自己良心过不去。

yuanyuanlu

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comfort, MM. Call your mom more often and visit your family back in China more often.

BTW, H1B is very easy to get visa back to US, easier than F1.

RoseBaby

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可怜的MM，抱一下，要向前看。你爸爸有你这个女儿一定很骄傲，别太自责了。

其实很多女孩子心里矛盾，前阵子心版有个MM贴的30岁贴子，那些想法我都想过无数遍。想回国，就回吧。起码，现在一定要回去陪陪你妈妈。我有很多狠心回去了的朋友，现在都在国内生活得蛮好的。只要准备好国内也有很多我们不喜欢的东西，就行了。

Alexandria

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节哀顺便。mm还是回去看看8，h1很好签的应该

flowwater

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以下是引用Alexandria在2006-2-24 11:43:00的发言：
节哀顺便。mm还是回去看看8，h1很好签的应该

verawang

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Don't be too upset, and don't blame yourself too much. Even if you were there that momont, you couldn't do anything either. The most important thing is to think about people who are still alive.

viciatwo

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Big hug. In our age, we will face those situation sooner or later, and we have or will have kids to take care. Life is carrying on. We are climbing mountains with load.

Try to go home and stay with your family for a while.