I did not have a wedding. The ones in China is too vulgar, so I choose not to have it. The down side of it is that every time an american folk ask me, I have to explain it, kind of painful. Any good suggestions?

u mean u didn't have ceremony,just got marriage certificate？ i think ur american folk ask u for that just wanna congratulate u guys, u don't have to tell them the details, u can just smile and thank them...

I didn't either. I chose not to. but will have one in china next year. whenver I think about it I want to kill myself. well..just for parents's sake. sigh.