我觉得吧，lz的年龄确实让她有压力，不过他的顾虑也不是没道理。
以结婚为目的的交往我觉得并不是以后一定结婚，当然是如果交往的好合得来才结婚。就怕这个男的并不想结婚，只是想找个玩玩。
我觉得这么大年纪了，交往前说清楚也挺好的，省的浪费时间。就跟相亲似的，合得来相处下去，合不来拉倒，但是双方来相亲的目的是为了找个将来能结婚的，而不是找个玩玩。因为太多人分手是因为相处好多年了，一方想结婚了，另一方说i'm not ready.
如果这个目的性也能把这个男的吓跑，这人要么就是没诚意，要么就是心理太脆弱
re, good point.
re, lzmm, you can do sth for yourself
Unless you already fall in love with him, this 态度 is acceptable at first stage of a serious relationship.
我觉得很有可能是，男的跟父母说过了，父母没同意，就想拖着。
但对楼主妹妹说，快35的年龄是很尴尬的，没有别的意思，就是说点实话。我觉得多争取吧，这种事情男的拖得起，女的不行的。找个伴再不好，也是个伴。如果没有60分，起码可以名正言顺的有个自己的孩子，再往下拖是错误的。楼主妹妹别介意我的话有点糙。
I don't agree with the high lighted one.
You only got this one life, why not treat yourself better? A bad husband is not better for no husband. In today's world, we don't need a man only to bring bread to the house. We need to love someone who loves us, who cares for us, who can share moments with us. Love is so beauiful and it definitely worthes waiting.
My piano teacher met her husband when they were not young. They love each other very much although they don't have any children.
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