女人什么都不要做的话， 那男人找个飞机杯或是充气娃娃不就好了

连唤起，勃起， 射精也算work的话， 那男人完全可以省省气力保持微软状态， 等女人有欲望了， 女人可以辅助完成这几项工作， 男人只要负责持久就行了

我是说，如果女人什么都不要做， 死鱼躺就行了的话， 那男人跟女人做爱跟用飞机杯和性爱娃娃做不是一样？还不需要女人“施舍”

From my own experience, 80% of women are like that. It’s sad, but true.

Lexian 发表于 2022-09-18 11:36

也许是因为很多男人对女人跟对有温度的飞机杯差不多吧，女人没有性欲的时候， 男人不花心思气力去调动女人情绪，反而抱着“practically nothing you need to do, as long as not against it”的想法, 那女人死鱼躺很难理解吗？

我有个疑问

为什么爱这个男人， 女人却没有欲望？

一直没理解这是什么逻辑.

jodan007 发表于 2022-09-18 13:45

男人爱女人，也不是每时每刻都能够提枪上阵。

Urrh, “奸尸”的事倒是从来没做过， but the sad truth is even when fully aroused, most women just accept it passively. They don’t tell you what they want, they don’t act in coordination, make be except some moaning. :-D

before you go berserk, tell me this: do you know when the man is about to come? Do you know how to stop it?

Lexian 发表于 2022-09-18 14:52

Huh, 没看懂最后的问句是什么意思？

男人要高潮， 自私或是能力差的马上就射了，水平层次高的男人会通过放缓动作， 调整体位等方式调整好自己的状态，直到女方得到满足之后才释放自己。 怎么会需要女人去stop it

so your answer basically means nothing women need to do. Yes, some men can control, but every women can do it, easier, if you pay attention and participate.

Lexian 发表于 2022-09-18 15:25

我说的是男的要射，女的为什么要去stop It? 让男的射不出太容易了， 可是for what? 实在不明白你怎么就理解成nothing women need to do了

Didn’t you just say a good man should release AFTER woman comes?

Lexian 发表于 2022-09-18 15:38

性爱本来就应该互相满足， 男的先高潮后高潮都没关系， 只要最后他让女人也得到了满足就行

Well, you are conflicting against yourself. Men’s ejection is a real function, takes a surge of postagldine and automatic muscule contraction to achieve- and it need time to recover. Don’t listen to the forum myth of 一夜七次郎。 even if they can come multiple time, often with help of drugs, the intermittent of it is near total collapse. On the other side, women’s come has no real physical function, and it’s not as nearly depleted. One of the most common complaint of sex from women is they were just forgotten after men came. That’s unfortunately physical and has nothing to do with love.

Lexian 发表于 2022-09-18 16:28

你说的和我说的没冲突啊， 男的要能多次， 先射后射无所谓， 要是一夜只能一次， 那就满足女人之后再射。 能力不足， 就用手口工具也行。 如果找借口只顾自己爽的话， 有什么权利要求女人随叫随到

I got you, your bottom line is still nothing I need to do. He should make you satisfied. Now, let me ask you, are you sexually satisfied?

Lexian 发表于 2022-09-18 18:10

说了半天性爱是互相满足都白说了啊，难道你做爱从头到尾只需要女的躺着不动就行？

Like I said, vast majority of women are like that. Either don’t know or not willing to participate. All they think is as long as I don’t say no, that’s enough. Not meant to be accusative, but that’s just the sad truth.

Lexian 发表于 2022-09-18 18:45

那只能说你很不幸， 碰到这样的换一个就是了， 男人只顾自己爽的或是能力弱的也不少。

不过如果你碰到的大部分女人都是如此， 只能说明你喜欢的女人都是同一类

just from the conversation here in this thread, I suspect you also belong to the 80%. It’s not a lucky or not kind of question, it’s a prevalent concept. I’m actually lucky to have experienced someone(s) different so I’d say there are some exceptions, but far and few in between.

Lexian 发表于 2022-09-18 19:23

所以我才说你喜欢是同一类的女孩， 这类女孩里偶尔有悟性高的， 可以自学成才， 无师自通，大部分在床上的表现则落在那80%里。

哈哈，伊版，还是聊聊轻松的话题，又不是离婚贴。有爱的性是我追求的，从来不理解ONS, 这么亲密的接触，必须彼此信任，差一点都不行啊。
ForeverYoung21 发表于 2022-09-24 01:35

很好理解吧，就好像有些人吃东西讲究就餐环境，高大上的环境带来的心理满足可以弥补菜味道上的不足； 而有些人更关注菜本身的色香味，满足口舌之欲最重要； 还有些人喜欢尝试新鲜的菜品。