bless you but what you should do is to find a good lawyer. Read the related laws yourself. I think you can play by the cultural difference card as well as your depression if you had any proof. Two accidents are just not enough to draw the conclusion that you are abusing your child. You must do something yourself. You cannot just wait. Nothing is going to happen unless you find a way. Seek legal consultation! God only helps those who help themselves. Guanyi too!