help with registry-第1页

heels

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以下是引用islamicmm在2006-4-18 22:08:00的发言：
Just state in your invitation "monetary gift preferred"

That would be very inappropriate. You shouldn't talk about your gift registry in your invitation in the first place.

heels

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以下是引用islamicmm在2006-4-19的发言：

That would be very inappropriate. You shouldn't talk about your gift registry in your invitation in the first place.

then when will you talk about it?

For proper wedding etiquette, you don't mention gifts in your invitation. If you do, you are assuming that everyone you invite should bring a gift, however, your guests shouldn't feel obligated to. Where you registered or what kind of gifts you prefer is strictly word of mouth, if people want to know, they can call you, your maid-of-honor, or your parents to find out.

heels

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我说的是美式婚礼的礼仪，要讲appropriate的话是不能在请柬什么上写明什么礼物的。我自己的婚礼在今年九月，我们的wedding consultants也再三告诫我们不要这么干，否则很容易引起客人的反感。很多wedding etiquette的网站也有类似的反面例子，mm自己搜索一下就知道了。我当然知道有人真的这么写了，那还是随各人便吧。楼主主要是想知道这样做是不是合乎传统礼仪，这我已经回答了。