以下是引用agemo在2006-8-28 19:20:00的发言:以下是引用美丽的野猪在2006-8-28 18:22:00的发言:
I do think it's reasonable for A to be mad and post such a thing at BBS. Just like when some mm got cheated on and post some sad post here too and got sympahty here. It's just different perspective. A was lied to about the reason of breaking up. I would be mad too if my ex is not honest with me even if he/she lied with a good reason.
agree.. lzmm thinks only about her own feelings and not think of A's feelings. A's reaction is just reasonable and understandable.
Agree, too.
欺骗是比背叛更大的伤害!如果告诉A真相,他当时也许会很伤心,可是现在从别人那里知道了真相,只会更加伤心甚至愤怒,对你们过去的感情完全否定。我很看不起lz这种做法,只考虑自己,根本就是还想在A那里保留自己完美的形象,让人家对她念念不忘,说是considerate,其实极度自私。
之前我觉得lz能够找到自己的爱是一种幸福,可是看到这里,我很不能苟同以这样一种方式来结束上一段感情。难怪人家说,现在这年头,速食主义盛行,分手,一个短信就可以搞定,还需要什么承诺。
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