"Divorce Lawyers Give Relationship Advice | Glamour"

1. Understand that marriage is a serious legal commitment

2. Know exactly what you want in a spouse, and realize they may not change

3. Definitely talk about your finances

4. An exciting girlfriend or boyfriend might not make a good spouse

5. If you do have to get a divorce, try to stay calm

"Psychologists Explain 6 Ways to Make Your Marriage Happier"

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"7 Red Flags In Dating You Should NEVER Ignore"

0:37 Check out the friends of the one you're dating

1:20 Check out how they treat waitstaff or service people (個人從我先生那裡得知的數據點：他前妻婚前已經failed this。但當時他還未得到這擇偶知識)

2:17 Be wary when they tell secrets that aren't supposed to be told

3:18 They're heavily engaged in social media

4:33 They had short-lasting relationships

5:38 They put all the responsibility onto their ex when they broke up

7:05 They have the idea of their partner being perfect

還有，今天找到的，男生可做參考，想想如何升級 更能成為女生 首選的 老公 對象：

「女人需要明白，能夠陪你到老的男人，身上一定都具備這三點特征/情感/婚姻」

第二點：「他的愛裏面一定有偏愛」

這點，我先生 坦白 告訴我 （我用我自己的理解來造句）我先生沒有用以下的詞語：

他 有特別注意的向 他所喜愛的女生 運用這「策略」。

他也告訴我，如果 他參與 發展 或 經營一段 polyamory 關係 的話，他必須使用這招。

所以總是 他在撇人，沒有他被人撇的。

因為他就是能給女生一種 他愛她 比 她愛他 更多 的感覺。

例子之一：他早就跟前妻說好了，等兒子到了法定 不需要誰負擔 贍養費 的年齡 就離婚，經濟分開。

他前妻 不相信 他說得到 做得到。

他們離婚書已經拿了兩年，她還打電話來要求復合。

問她為什麼這麼晚才要求復合？

她說因為發現仍然愛他。