MM must be brainwashed by your LG. You may ask yourself what do you get from this marriage? If the answer is nothing - you have your right to pursue a happy life. If you are too afraid of your LG to divorce you will live in fear and unhappiness for the rest of your life. The longer you wait the more painful it will be.

It is your life - your choice! You made a mistake to marry him (without checking on his XX), and if you don't leave him NOW, you are making another mistake!

Anyway, happy thinksgiving everybody!