建议你下次吃饭结账时说do you mind if we split, honey? 如果他拒绝的话你就面带微笑的说well, I think it is fair if we split the bill, how do you think? 如果他就是不付钱那你就可以考虑以后不跟他吃饭只喝咖啡，看他买单不。