不是很同意，我觉得心版太过于讲究游戏策略。其实我们每个人的目标就是找对人结婚，谁主动并不重要，一般说女生不爱主动而已。这是一个男生写的他的结婚对象标准。我比较认同的。
感觉第四条很重要，我觉得我自己很多时候都没做好，比如男方工作受打击或者亲人生病的时候，我们是否保持冷静给于关怀。
After 6 months, if you are together on a regular basis you know her 95%, unless she's hiding some dark secret like she was a former prostitute. By that point you know;
-Personality; if you 2 are compatible
-Finances; if she's in debt and good with money or not
-Life goals; if you 2 are heading in the same direction
-Ability to work as a team; in those 6 months surely some crisis has happened (Death of relative, big failure of some kind, etc) and if she stays calm and works with you to find a solution or turns you into her enemy
-Any sort of mental disorder will make itself known (Bipolar, depression, cluster b)
-Boundaries; if she is a party girl that has a lot of guy friends
-Dating history; if she's cheated before
感觉第四条很重要，我觉得我自己很多时候都没做好，比如男方工作受打击或者亲人生病的时候，我们是否保持冷静给于关怀。
After 6 months, if you are together on a regular basis you know her 95%, unless she's hiding some dark secret like she was a former prostitute. By that point you know;
-Personality; if you 2 are compatible
-Finances; if she's in debt and good with money or not
-Life goals; if you 2 are heading in the same direction
-Ability to work as a team; in those 6 months surely some crisis has happened (Death of relative, big failure of some kind, etc) and if she stays calm and works with you to find a solution or turns you into her enemy
-Any sort of mental disorder will make itself known (Bipolar, depression, cluster b)
-Boundaries; if she is a party girl that has a lot of guy friends
-Dating history; if she's cheated before