Sigh I m not married yet, so not sure how important you look at marriage. Since you already have kids, so you'd better consider your daughter's feeling before you really wanto divorce. My suggestion is that, let your husband talk to you in the most honest and humber way about what has happened, and if he still loves you and wants to change the situation, then you might consider giving him another chance. I know if you are cheated you feel really disgusted, time can cure a lot of things, the best medicine for feelings too! Best wishes to you!!!