送分子钱摆酒和做好事完全不矛盾，还有人把收到的份子钱全部捐出去呢，有什么好比较的。

vvwong 发表于 11/1/2015 9:00:41 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1911508&postid=69561433#69561433][/url]

who did that? How many people did that? LZ's case is special, in stead of just doing themselves, they are spreading such kindness to other people so more people are doing it now!!