i maybe a little bit mean.. but ...

they got the high educated, have more knowledge about how to protect themselve..

but there always happened like suicide , kill the school mate.. etc ..on these chinese.... i really mean THESE chinese.....

they took some many high level classes, got the Dr. Phd, degree.

but  they even don't know about  the  basic psychology, (most U have this class).

if they really don't know how to protect themselve on their own,

they also can go to consulter, they can talk with their friends..

they can go to yoga....

the husband of course has the responsiblity....

there are many ways to PROTECT themselve for avoiding any problems...

before it happens, you should know it maybe happens..

during it happens, you should know the way to solve it, or comfort yourself...

After it happened, it is ur own responsibility...