当然引产掉。。。。自己利益还是大过老公的父母吧
而且生下来,爷爷奶奶养,自己不用管,对孩子也不好,对自己以后嫁人也不好
一共三方,自己,孩子,老公的爸妈,对其中两方都不好
两害相权取其轻啊,这么简单的道理
给孩子生命就是对他最大的好。她也可以选择自己带孩子。我们没有权利judge别人什么,但是她很难说这个选择会让她不后悔。
诶,这就是中国人可悲的地方。我有个美国同学,79年的男生,超级帅锅一枚,MBA第二年开学已经找到毕业的工作了,找的准老婆比他大4岁,有两个小孩,一个8岁,一个5岁,看他facebook上全家福的照片,真的不觉得她配不上他,而且他们还是他刚开始读mba的时候认识的,long distance, 女的一直在老家等他读完第一年回去订的婚,两个人都没什么钱,男的靠奖学金读的mba。如果放中国,一个是top school的mba,一个是离婚或者守寡拉扯2娃的中年妇女,怎么都走不到一起的啦。
我具体忘记多少月 反正是可以看出肚子挺大的。因为我这件事情才知道原来引产和流产不太一样 印象很深刻
引产是先杀死孩子然后弄出来,非常残忍的,所以我说这个女人可悲。有些7个月的孩子引下来也是可以活的,我姨妈手里就碰到过,后来她还让人想办法把这个男孩子送人了,据说现在人家都读大学了呢。做过妇产科的都应该知道的。所以事情是变化的,生命是最可贵的,如果当初医生的针重一点,这个读大学的孩子早就不存在了。中国人确实人太多,对生命太不重视了。
abortion =! late term abortion.
It is significantly different. Most states in America allow abortion till week 12 which is the end of first trimester. If she was showing, she has definitely passed the first trimester. I did not quite show until my baby was 7, 8 months. By week 16, some women can feel the baby move in your belly. By week 20, most women can feel. It is a life not just a set of cells.
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a? for real? wow......thought it was only allowed by the 3rd trimester?
MA is 12-14, NY is before 20 I believe. one of my friends had a mid-term abortion because the baby had brain demage and could not be born lively. But MA law forbids abortion beyone week 14 so the couple had to drive all the way to NYC to do it. It was such a heart broken journey for them. They saw the baby face on a 4-D ultrasound in Boston Children's hospital and it was just like a real picture...I can not imagine a genunie woman can choose late term abortion abortion of a healthy baby if she knows all the truth about it.