以下是引用dididi在2006-12-15 10:40:00的发言：
BABY BLUE真是太常见了..我一个朋友,平时那么能耐的一个人. BABY BLUE的时候都会说自己特别的绝望.

说得我好害怕，是不是很多人都baby blue啊，我都不想生小孩了，太可怕了。

另外我觉得平时很要强，自认能力还行，但是长期不顺心的人特别容易走极端。

这篇写的真好，特别是最后一段，很感动人：

I know Ms Yang pretty well, a lovely and loving young lady. This must be a tragic accident, instead of a practice of horrible family violence, which media notoriously intends to make up to attract audience's eyeballs, offering a cheap sensational satisfaction.

The last time when I saw her was at the Grand Asian Market. Wearing a blazing red coat, she happily waved to me upon leaving. Once, she also meticulously allowed me to hold her cute son for seconds as a sign of ultimate trust and award, as if holding her son, even just for a moment, should be the happiest thing in this world.

I always feel it is a shame and fortune for we Chinese men to share the hardship of study and living aboard with those lovely Chinese women, who are so loyal and diligent, willing to devote themselves to our dreams, despite all the erosion of reality. My best wishse to all of them, with a sincere heart.

duke的bbs上有人说不是大家想的那样他们把大女儿送回去。不过我是可以想象一个生物phd然后posdoc要养活5个人的家庭是怎样的情况。何况妻子短期内不会有收入help family。

但是并不是说就可以judge他人。每个家庭不一样，每个人不一样。