婆婆是不太待见,但也没天大的错,虽然唠叨了点、管得宽了点,也不至于大恶;指责媳妇的那些,如果做媳妇的把握好原则,该改进的该进一下,该坚持的坚持,也并不见得会水火不容。倒是觉得这媳妇做得挺恶的。整天一件家务都不做,偶尔洗个碗就能觉得凄凉无比了,lg来帮忙也就乐得甩手不干了,站在外人的角度也觉得这媳妇是很不体贴lg啊;房内的事也是媳妇自己搞出来的,夫妻2人知道隔音不好小声点不行么,就算隔壁住得不是老人是普通朋友天天听你们晚上闹也心烦阿,媳妇还就非要“故意很淫荡的叫”,这不没事找事么。
这样的婆婆加上这样的媳妇,不闹个鸡飞狗跳就怪了。相比而言,同情婆婆更多些,至少婆婆找媳妇的茬,还是有点原因的,多是觉得媳妇照顾儿子照顾的不好,而看媳妇自己的描述,这媳妇也的确不太属于会关心照顾人的类型,虽然本来只要夫妻2人都可以开心相处就行,但放在婆婆的眼里就看不过去了;而媳妇和婆婆过不去,则是无任何道理的,只要心里不舒服,就觉得自己家可以随便怎么来,叫得很响不是自己的问题,还自豪的很。受不了~~~
agree. This is one family, not some enemy or stranger on the road, but it sounds like LZMM is trying to win a war. If it becomes a war, nobody wins.
For example, lying in your husband's arms in living room, while his mother is arround is not 100% proper. Some people can bear with it. But it's understandable that she doesn't like it.