no matter you've already have sex with him or not, this kind of man(ok, just a boy, not deserve to be called a man) never deserves a good&smart girl, he needs a babysitter and cook and manager so he is with you now, the one who really loves you will be happy for only being with you, he will cherish everything you do for him, also he would like to do a lot to make you feel safe and happy----conclusion:dump him at once!