MM, I totally undertand your frustration because I went through similar things before.

My suggestion would be:

1) see a good infertility specialist to prepare for the worst case (IVF).  These doctors belong to reproductive endocrinology. If your period is irregular, there is a good chance that you might ovulate regularly.

2)relax and have faith in yourself and the modern technology.

3) ask your husband to eat oysters when you ovulate. I read on internet that oysters can increase sperm count. I don't know whether it is true. We tried this way, and I got pregnant (I also took drugs to induce ovulation so I knew for sure I was ovulating those days).

I told a friend of mine who was trying for a few years and she got pregnant too!!! She thinks the oysters made a big difference!

Good luck to you!!!

Sorry for the typos in the previous post.

My doctor said if your period is irregular, there is a good chance you might NOT ovulate regularly. He mentioned a disease called polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) that is related to this. Here is a link for more information:

http://www.4woman.gov/faq/pcos.htm

Also, he said a lot of women don't respond to clomid. I don't know why your doctor gave you clomid while saying everything is normal with you.  Maybe you should see a better doctor and ask for a differnent drug.

My husband loves raw oysters so it was not a problem to him at all. he ate only once. I guess cooked oysters should be fine too. Just go to a seafood restaurant and order a dozen (cooked or raw). I got this idea from wenxuecity.com (baby board). There are lots discussion about infertility.

I personally think it's reasonable to seek medical help if you have tried for one year or so with no success.

good luck!