i think a lot of things are just a matter of time. it does not make much difference as long as you do not waste time & keep trying.

like, directly come abroad for degree vs. work a while in china / get married in early 20s vs. in mid of 30s / start with a high-paid job vs. grow little by little / have baby right after marriage vs. wait a couple of years... etc. as long as you keep trying, you will get there and each way has pros and cons. right?

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