以下是引用larel在2005-10-9 0:36:00的发言：

你健身的目的是什么啊？锻炼多久了？主要进行那些运动？

其实我也一头雾水，到底应该找什么样的partner腻?

是和自己类似的（交流经验）？还是不同的（互相学习）？还是找一个自己熟悉的（好被监督）？

不好意思，全是问题。

Sorry I cannot type in Chinese now.

My purpose is not to "slim down". Although compared to most Chinese girls I am overweighted (I am 5'1 and 115 pounds), I still think I am OK--I don't wait to abuse myself to cut few extra pounds. My real goal is to be more energetic through exercise and have a more healthy lifestyle.

I like swimming, jogging, walking, playing tennis, yoga/pilates. But my biggest problem is, I give up too easily, both physically and mentally. For example, when I try to follow a yoga DVD which contains 1.5 hour instruction, I alwayys stop after 30 minutes and think "OK, that's enough. I cannot take it anymore". So I wish to find a exercise buddy so we can motivate each other and make the whole exercise thing more enjoyable.