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mm还是心软呀…要我我就直接说are we on the same page了。我觉得谈恋爱节奏慢不是不行，但是怕就怕在节奏不一样，感觉mm对他期待有加，对方不一定有同样的expectation呢

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回复1211楼白驹过隙的帖子 再给你个potential response to human nature吧：a rational, sense-making human being oftentimes doesn’t follow human nature and most of time, a successful human being fights against their human nature. In ancient times people kill strangers because that’s human nature - to protect ourselves from strangers. People eat a lot of carbs and sugar as a part of human nature because these are what needed to survive. People tend to be lazy because it’s human nature to relax and have an easy time. But we don’t do that, or we should strive to fight against human nature. Being vulnerable and open up isn’t human nature and that is exactly why relationships are hard but valuable at the same time. Otherwise why don’t you date more than one girl at the same time? It’s human nature to be polygynous (as marriage is a contemporary and social concept).

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不好意思有些错误在里面，不过logic就是，follow human nature is a crappy excuse!

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回复1221楼白驹过隙的帖子 说真的我觉得如果你不喜欢他的理由，又不能说他说的是错的，说明你俩三观不太合，对感情的态度不一样，和他在一起你会很累…会不停的要纠正自己的想法，才能justify和他在一起

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