I think that
"thank you for understanding" is ok la
and
"thank you for being understood" and "thank you for being understandable" are not correct for sure;
should be
"thank you for being considerate"
"thank you for understanding" is ok la
and
"thank you for being understood" and "thank you for being understandable" are not correct for sure;
should be
"thank you for being considerate"