找了一段2004年的电影closer里面的一段对话，当时印象极为深刻，每次谈到抑郁症就想起来这个，很有意思。 DAN: I apologize. If you love her, you'll let her go, so she can be happy. LARRY: She doesn't want to be happy. DAN: Everybody wants to be happy. LARRY: Depressives don't. They want to be unhappy to confirm their depression. If they were happy, they couldn't be depressed anymore. They'd have to go out into the world and live, which can be depressing.