After read this, I feel sad. Now I can understand that your husband are under lots of pressure too. The biggest problem is still that money issue. May be you think his salary is pretty high; however is it possible that your husband may worry about losing job, then you will have no income? Try to think in his way and you need to talk about it with him. Are you still in school? Then may try some part time job, so to be some kind of independant, he may feel release too. I can understand that pressure that only one person has job in your family.