以下是引用tapioca在2006-4-1 19:05:00的发言：

弱弱的问：伴娘和伴郎的礼服也都要自己（新娘新郎）准备么？那仪式结束后就当礼物送给了呢还是自己留着啊？

No, my wedding corrdinator told me yesterday that bridesmaid and groomsmen pay for their own clothing, and new couple prepare some gifts for them. But if you invite Chinese to be your bridesmaid, our tradition is bride pays for the dress.

Please see this: who pays for what: http://www.brides.com/planning/budget/feature/article/124680

Bridesmaids

Bridal shower



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  Bridesmaid dress and shoes (flowergirl/ringbearer attire is paid for by the child's parents)

  
  
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  Any traveling expenses

  
  
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  Bachelorette party (optional)

But I am going to pay for one of my bridesmaids since she is a student. Normally, bride tells bridesmaid a specific dress that she likes, so they all get the same one.