回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1997331&postid=71344903#71344903]89楼心如灰的帖子[/url]
"我生气他为了回国,或者达到自己的目的可以不要家"
how did you get it that way...
His daddy was turning 70, what's wrong with it to attend the birthday party? what if it were your daddy? won't you want to be there too? he was not asking for a long vacation but just one week. i don't get it why it's such a big deal.
plus, the things you mentioned as you are very independent, true, but aren't these normal things? nothing special to me in my eyes. two mature independent couples always have split duties and take care of things. you can't reward yourself for that and at the same time ignore his part.