以下是引用purplerain在2006-3-18 18:30:00的发言：
毫无疑问，离。 这样的老公就象一个又破又烂的沙发，累了不能坐，倦了不能靠，朋友来了还给你难堪，还留着干什么。趁早扫地出门。

以下是引用hxcq2006在2006-3-19 13:06:00的发言：
Rang da jia jian xiao le:). I am just a stupid ...I just feel desparate about marriage. A very sick thing happened in last weekend, which made me desparate about marriage. A "gentleman", who I thought as a "gentleman" before tried to sex harrass me. He looks like a gentleman and has a very nice wife, who devotes her whole life for their small family. He works hard for their family. It seems he is a normal and good person. How come???? Why??? It made me sick for last whole week. I kept thinking " did I give him any hint?". No, I didn't. We are family friends. I never do something with himself alone. I went out with his whole family. Since I am married, I try to avoid spending time with single male. How come??? Why??? I am so desparate about marriage. How come?? He has such a beautiful daughter. Why?? I don't understand it.