you two need to talk with each other.
He is not satisfied with you in some way and maybe he also feels great pressure from work or something.
ANd for money,maybe he wants to make plan for ur kids or ur retirement.
Anyway, you need to talk and know the reason why things happen.
Maybe he think you are still too "Young" and don't how to plan to use the money.
well, if my husband did anything like this, I will definitely try to know why.

Some reasons are good, some are not, you need to understand him.

iF i WERE YOU,I may get divorced.

If you two just get married for 1 year and you already despise him,why do you marry him?
If you are still young, I would like to suggest you find the life you really need and like.

以下是引用darkmoon在2004-4-24 4:09:34的发言：
唉,同感啊.我才结婚一年多就觉得自己很受伤了.
我老公吧,我说个心理话,我们俩真的是太不合适了,我承认是我错了--我当初不该一时冲动结婚,现在自食其果,我认了.
不过JJ你现在有了小孩子了,别轻易离婚,我小时候,父母闹离婚,我觉得天都要塌下来了,甚至想过去死,还好他们只不过是吵吵而已.
现在摆在我面前的有两条路,一是找个工作,彻底跟他撕破脸,然后离婚走人.第二,忍下去,反正有吃有喝,他的那些低俗的做风为人,我就当什么没看到,每天做做家务,打扮自己,逛街去.
我觉得自己安逸久了,有点儿惰性,我想过,如果我离了婚,最初的一段日子可能会很苦很苦,换来的是心灵上的快乐,不用见着他了---万岁!! 如果我不离婚,我自己要操持这个家,这也没什么,但是要对他忍气吞声,接受他俗不可耐的语言,作风,为人---恶心啊!!
没有生活的压力换来的是精神上的压力,我正在衡量,也许自己还年轻,不懂得怎么选择,但是至少得好好保存自己的实力,保养好自己,不生孩子,不跟社会脱节,然后再说吧.