以下是引用hotwater在2003-9-9 11:01:26的发言：
偶觉得因人而异，当然在国外增长了见识，不是旅游就能学来的。至于说留在国外是很复杂的原因，至少对我来说，孩子的教育是主要考虑，在这国外的生活比较单纯，对不太擅长高人际关系的朋友或许是个不错的选择。当然也有所时，不过我想我还是会选择出国，如果年轻一些或许不留在这里，回国发展了。

I don't really think so. I feel more and more that it is like in China or everywhere in USA.

If let me decide with the experience I have now, I wouldn't choose to leave home. But it could never happen. So if I could live my life again, I would still come to USA.

Like a lot of people, it was always my dream to be independent, to leave my parents and go out to take a look at the whole world since I was little. But if you know that you might not have the chance to see them in your life time any more, would you still want to go out?

fu mu zai, bu yuan you. I more and more agree this saying.