别哭，别哭。我也是，独生，还有姥姥姥爷，都80了。俺妈和俺爸的关系还不好，可怜我妈一个人，还要照顾两个老人。
出国这件事好像上了贼船，上了就下不来了，只能咬牙走到底。我现在是有点漂泊者的感觉了，没根，干什么都心里发虚。我总是想再撑几年，我就回国，到时一定把我妈接到身边，好好尽尽孝心。

以下是引用bbcat在2004-5-7 16:02:35的发言：

the hardest things for me were my grandfather, great grandmother, grandma, grand aunt passed away during the past 3 years.
I wasn't able to be around them at those times.
We all had very close relationships........


I made my grandfather many promises.
But he passed away before a single one came ture.........


The day he died, I was teaching students.
I didn't know what's wrong with me, but I suddenly broke into tears in class, without any reasons.
All my students were scared, they thought I was nut....
But I couldn't explain why I felt so sad.
When I got home, my mom called and told me the bad news.
I guess I really had a strong psychological connection with my grandfather.
It's like my sixth sense telling me he's gonna die and I shred tears without knowing why