First I have to say I am kind of a loser. Really can't quite fit in the life here. Though not too bad.

But the point is that, at the beginning, the live in US is quite stressful, lots of ppmm getting stressed out and aging much faster than at home. If yo survived, it will be ok.

I think if you come from the top Univ of china, can get a good job bright future in China, it is better to stay home. And for those like the feeling to stay with relatives and close friends, then u really need to take a second though. Like me, i am getting too homesick these days, After 4 years here.