前天才看了电视节目,好像就在讨论大家能接受多大的孩子到异性的洗手间去,大部分美国人的普遍回答是6岁左右都能接受。
Child sexuality is the sexual feelings, behaviors, and development of children. Until Sigmund Freud published his Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality in 1905, children were often regarded as asexual, having no sexuality until later development. Freud was one of the first researchers to seriously study child sexuality. While his ideas, such as psycho-sexual development and the Oedipus conflict, have been rejected or labeled obsolete, acknowledging the existence of child sexuality was a milestone.[1] Children are naturally curious about their bodies and sexual functions — they wonder where babies come from, they notice anatomical differences between males and females, and many engage in genital play or masturbation. Child sex play includes exhibiting or inspecting the genitals. Many children take part in some sex play, typically with siblings or friends.[1] Sex play with others usually decreases as children go through their elementary school years, yet they still may possess romantic interest in their peers. Curiosity levels remain high during these years, but it is not until adolescence that the main surge in sexual interest occurs.[1]
The following sections describe typical culturally-normed behavior among developed Western societies.
From the ages of three to seven, the following behaviors are normal among children:
甭在这扯这个,就说5岁小男孩要上厕所,爸爸不在,你说怎么办吧!
让他一个人去男卫生间,万一出事了怎么办?美国法律不允许的单独把一定岁数的儿童单独相处,有的州12岁,有的州低一些,但是5岁觉得不行,不信你把你自己5岁孩子一人放家,让后告警察试试?