During our conversations I learned much about Sarah.
She is married and has beautiful daughters.
Her husband is a good man and husband.
She works hard.
She doesn’t worry about the future.
She is a romantic.
She has a deep belief in God and the Bible.
She is very organized.
Even a little OCD.
She only had one boyfriend before she met her husband.
She remembers him fondly.
As a rule, I don’t sleep well.
Sometimes I will lie in the backseat of my car and nap just to make it through the work day.
On one particular day I IM’d Sarah saying I was tired.
She responded “What can I do for you?”
Without thinking I said “Let me lie my head in your lap while I nap.”
She said, “I would like that.”
We got into my car and drove to the waterfront.
In the back seat she sat and I lay in her lap.
It was heaven.
Heaven, just because of the physical contact.
She sat for 90 minutes without moving so I could sleep comfortably.
I knew I had to make her mine.
My submissive. “My Sarah.”
I planned out what I wanted to do to make her mine.
On a typical morning we met in a conference room to talk.
When she sat down I asked her to move her chair in front of mine.
I told her to relax and don’t react until I am done.
I took a six foot red silk sash and slowly wrapped it around her hands.
I wanted her to feel the silk moving across her skin.
To engage her senses so she would remember this moment.
She watched me intently as I bound her.
I placed my right hand over her two and bound myself to her.
My heart was racing.
I told her how I loved her.
I promised her I would always be truthful with her.
I promised her that if someday we were both free to marry I would make her mine.
I will take responsibility for her and her family.
I will do everything and anything to make her happy.
Lastly I said that I did not expect her to respond or make any promise in return.
Making a promise for reciprocity is not a promise.
We are, in my mind, married.
好看！看萨拉的经历不亚于追精彩的电视剧。还是我最爱的happy ending！
After the red silk sash promise our relationship changed.
We touched more often.
We lingered longer.
The subjects we discussed turned more intimate.
Sarah talked a lot about her first boy friend.
He was very spontaneous and mildly dominant.
He pulls her into his arms for a kiss.
He pins her down on the bed with his body as his hands roam to her most intimate locations.
Sarah speaks of this wistfully.
While I knew she was submissive to her husband as a proper wife should be, I did not know how submissive she really was.
In one particular conversation she said that her husband was very gentle in bed.
Nothing like her boyfriend.
While she does her marital duty she does not enjoy her husbands gentle way.
I mentioned that I am quite dominant in relationships.
She flushed, deeply.
At that moment I knew she isn’t just a dutiful wife.
She isn’t a mild submissive.
She craved complete submission.
She missed having a man dominate her.
I could barely contain myself at this realization.
I had found someone I love, trust and respect who needed to be dominated.
Sarah wanted me to dominate her.
I wanted very much to fulfill that need.
To be her “Sir!”
Shortly after this realization we were meeting for lunch.
I IM’d her telling her where to meet me.
She replied ‘Yes Sir!’
That phrase makes my heart race and my blood boil.
I said, “Do not say that to me unless you mean it.”
Her reply was simply, “Understood.”
In hind sight I believe she was trying to draw me in.
She was inviting me to dominate her.
To be the man responsible for her happiness and well being.
It was an exciting day.
The next morning I took extra silk ties with me and put them in my car.
When we arrived at the waterfront, I put her in the back seat and without a word, bound her hands with a silk tie.
She did not say anything.
She just watched, unmoving, as I bound her hands.
We discussed bondage and what aspect of it each of us liked.
The next day I bound her hands again and used the second tie to bind her ankles.
She said, “You can touch me in any way you like.”
I did.
For the next hour my hands and lips roamed her body.
Touching her everywhere over her clothes.
Later running my hands up under her full length skirt up to her thighs.
She felt incredible beneath my hands.
I squeezed her amazing ass with my hands and was delighted by the softness of her skin.
She was breathing hard and the aroma coming from between her thighs was sweet and musky. So inviting.
I could not resist any longer.
I flipped her over, face down, with her ass in the air.
I place my left hand between her shoulders.
I placed my right hand into the small of her back.
I put the full weight of my body down onto her back and ass and began thrusting. Hard!
Being fully dressed was frustrating.
But it was mild compared to the pleasure of my dominance over her.
No more dancing around the topic.
Just my body dominating her.
Her will submitting to mine without a thought.
I was in heaven.
We started openly discussing having a D/s relationship.
We both wanted it.
But we are both married with children.
There would have to be ground rules.
Neither one of us wanted to hurt our spouses or destroy our families.
We agreed to only be D/s in private.
Agreed that our vanilla lives have to take priority over our D/s lives to maintain our secret.
To maintain the vanilla illusion.
Far from perfect.
But very very good all the same.
Sarah set only one rule: no intercourse.
We jokingly refer to it as “The Bottom Line.”
I dance all over that line.
She is helpless beneath me.
I could cross the line anytime I want.
But she trusts me completely.
I would not be her “Sir!” if I broke that trust.
I respect her.
I do not cross.
We had a simple ceremony in our favorite place by the waterfront.
Sarah is sitting.
I straddle her hips pinning her down and hold her face in my hands.
“Do you want to submit to me?”
“Yes Sir.”
“Are you my submissive?”
“Yes Sir!”
“You are mine! I promise to take care of you.”
We have limited and locations for time together.
Fortunately Sarah has access to an apartment a few days a week that we can slip into.
No more backseats like horny teenages.
We explore each others bodies.
Learning them.
I am teaching her how to pleasure me properly.
I am teaching her how to enjoy being pleasured by me.
It is a wonderful time for us.
Two days ago I established a few Rituals that Sarah must follow.
I texted her and told her to remove anything under her skirt except for her panties.
She is eager to please me.
When I arrive she started practicing our meeting Ritual right away.
She knelt in front of me.
I showed her how to arrange her skirt around her so her bare legs touch the ground.
She looked up into my eyes and said the words I told her.
I was pleased.
Sarah is a very good girl.
I pushed her forward onto all fours for inspection.
She is not to wear anything beneath her skirt except for panties.
When the initial Ritual complete, clothes melted away and we fell into bed with passion.
The kisses, the caressing, the bondage, her submission to my needs are what I need.
They are what I require.
Sarah is eager to give me what I require.
We are very happy with our new D/s relationship.
上文说到 我先生 established a few Rituals that I must follow and here they are:
共十三条。我分几层楼贴上、、、、
（"New" 是因为本来没有的，一个月后来他加进来的。还记得当时他并没有告诉我，等了一个星期后才问我上星期有没有阅读此 Rituals page。我当然没有啦，既然都已经把所有Rituals 记在脑了，何须？结果领教了, 被他借意 打了 我 Butt 几下.
）
他现在不再借意打我 Butt，有机会顺手就来。例如我们排排坐在沙发看电视，吃饭，我站起来去给他拿甜品或喝的，他就会趁机打我一下Butt 。我总会 「嗯啊!!!」的发出一声。他说我好打，就像一个 squeaky duck。
Skirt - Whether in public or in private with Sir, only wear skirts approved by Sir.
(说起裙子，头几年的要求都是长度不许短过我脚眼以上两寸的。
还记得我有一天穿了一条长度在边缘的裙子。如果我把裙头往下拉一下就够长。明明在家里也用尺子量过了，够长才穿出来的。结果因为我的腰最细的部位比较偏高，所以穿了一会儿走动时 很快裙头自然会往上移，我后来做回顾出错在哪裏才留意到的。他遥远一看裙过短就不高兴。下班后一进宅门，他不许我跪或坐，要我先站着，问我为什么选择穿犯规的裙子。我还不认，他拿出尺子自己来量，数据证明他是对的。我的butt 又挨打了。 之后经验教训，我为此特意买了几条一定够长的裙子来循环一套套的交替穿上。不需要每天左度右度后才选择穿哪一条裙子。
几年后，我们从Burning Man 回来的路上，他告诉我把这条ritual 改了，不要求我穿长裙子。可以穿很短的裙子。我问为何？他说因为over the years, the way he views me changed. Short skirt better fit the new view he has for me. 他开始亲自为我拣选短裙子买给我穿。我选择只在他身边保护我我的时候才穿短裙子。平时没有他在身边的活动，我一律穿得密密实实的，从颈包到手腕，长裙子盖到不短过脚眼以上两寸。
)
Panties - When meeting with Sir you are to wear only approved panties beneath your skirt. Panthose, tights, shorts and slacks are forbidden. Thigh high stockings are acceptable. Sir enjoys direct access to your panties.
（他说我以前的内裤像一个十二岁女孩穿的，舒服但一点也不好看。他喜欢我穿漂亮的内裤。我那时还没有学习什么样设计，款式，资料的内裤才符合他的漂亮要求呢？他为了轻省我的脑力，给钱我一位闺蜜，叫她带我去买，如果看到她喜欢的也给她自己加添。还记得她教我 thong 设计的要买小一码的才穿得适合好看，我两选了不同style的，设计的，有运动型，有thong bikini 的，有蕾丝的，有透明的，有轻型的，穿上去也感觉没穿任何内裤资料的，等等，买回来摆得 玲琅满目 让他再籂选。我从观察他留那种类的内裤，退哪种类的，加上问他为何留这些，不留那些 的feedback，我更加深入了解他对我穿什么样的内裤更 turn-on. 发现他喜欢的 与 我闺蜜喜欢的完全不一样路线。他不喜欢运动型，喜欢高雅古典蕾丝半透明的委婉而不aggressive。其中有几个款的设计一直是他对穿在我的butt上的挚爱。我记住了，以后一遇上清货减价，我就不嫌购入太多的狂进货。后来他比以前有资源花给我，所以他开始自己为我挑选内裤亲自买给我穿。我两也对每一条内裤做了探讨研究，为何这一条看上去好看，但穿在我臀部上就是没有那一条那么好看呢？原来因为这条没有在两股之间有接合处，所以没有那条那么彰显出 我的臀部弧线美。以后挑选内裤就看设计缝裁便可知道了，无须买回来才知道。）
Commitments - Never neglect your commitments to your marriage, your family, your work or yourself.
Remember - Sir loves you very much.
（我最喜欢这个 ritual. 
每次读到这都很窩心！）
Stretching - Once a day perform your stretches for Sir. Sit on the floor, place your legs straight out in front of you and spread them as wide as you can without pain. Put one hand on top of the other and reach towards your right foot. Stretch forward, place your hands on your shin and hold for three seconds. Repeat for a total of five times on each foot. Each day work towards opening your legs a little more and reaching your hands further towards your feet. Be sure to stretch as far as you can. You should experience discomfort but not pain. Your goal is to improve your flexibility to better fulfill your role as Sir’s slut.
（现在我已经发展到天天做少少瑜珈，发现许多性爱中用到的体位，都是瑜珈中有练习做的。）
Punishment -
If you fail to perform any Ritual you will be punished.
When this happens you must tell Sir what you did or did not do and ask him for punishment.
Sir will determine and give the appropriate punishment.
If you fail to perform a task given to you by Sir, you must tell Sir what you did or did not do and ask him for punishment.
Sir will determine if a punishment is necessary or if discussion is more appropriate.
If you fail to tell Sir that you failed in a Ritual or task and ask for punishment, Sir will administer extra punishment at his discretion.
Journal -
Write one or more blog entries each month on our blog.
You must submit them by 8:00 pm on the last day of the month.
Each entry must contain your thoughts, feelings and reactions to an aspect of our D/s relationship.
You can only include factual recounts of our interactions if they are accompanied by your thoughts, feeling and reactions to that specific event.
You must review and edit each entry twice before posting to ensure you are using your best writing and grammatical style.
(起初这规矩是每周起码写一则。后来由于我先生离开了我两一起工作的地方 转去另外一个工作地点，我两每天的互动少了许多，我力争减低周记变月记。)
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