妈呀，太长了。我居然无聊的读完了。lz，你和你的前女友也没结婚，她更喜欢C，那你就放手吧。你再stalk她，摔酒杯，她可能会去找警察。我觉得还是move on比较好。C是挖了你墙角，但是你和前女友没结婚，所以C也不是十恶不赦的人。你女朋友和C都是人品不太好的普通人。

安慰一下楼主，看开一点吧

送你一首当年的榜首歌曲，据说是１９６３年美国流行榜第一　丑妻家中宝

Get an ugly girl to marry you!

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

A pretty woman makes her husband look small

And very often causes his downfall

As soon as he married her and then she starts

To do the things that will break his heart

But if you make an ugly woman your wife

A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life

An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time

And she'll always give you peace of mind

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

Don't let your friends say you have no taste

Go ahead and marry anyway

Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match

Take it from me, she's a better catch

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

Say man!

Hey baby!

I saw your wife the other day!

Yeah?

Yeah, an' she's ugly!

Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!

Yeah, alright!

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

同意这个，楼主控制欲太强了。你换个人吧，说不定有喜欢你这种类型的。

小铁锅的猫 发表于 2022-09-23 17:31

这也不一定work

他可能又不喜欢对方

感情的事情没有道理可言

我觉得我是中重度ptsd了。

其实在和B接触的过程中，有一段时间我是想放弃的，因为我也感觉到B对我没有很喜欢。这几天我反思了一下我所有的女朋友，某种类型的女生我是会特别上头，特别爱的，刚好B就是那种类型的。所以最后发现自己放弃了不B而选择继续而已。某种程度上可能也是自我感动吧。

arris 发表于 2022-09-23 14:58

你喜欢B或某种类型的女生并没有任何问题

可以努力去追求

甚至死缠烂打

但你也要意识到

你的这些做法可能不一定work

甚至适得其反

而且B跟你没有明确exclusive之前

完全有理由和其他人来往

甚至不需要跟你解释

楼主才是绿茶。既然喜欢b，又想将你在别人那受的委屈在b那讨回公道？中国历史上几千年对女性的恶意多了去了你要让b一一向你证明她没犯过？

对不起。b没那么爱你。

可能只有你父母才会忍受你不停作妖。

楼主要搞清楚一个事情：你爱b，不意味着b爱你。b不欠向你解释向你剖白希望你信任她的一生。

b居然还没远离你个深井冰，真奇怪。

楼主太纠结了。如果真的喜欢姑娘就拿出攻坚的精神来，猛烈追求她啊，成天对她和别人如何交往斤斤计较没有什么用的。

如果姑娘不喜欢你，那就是没有缘分，赶紧找下一个吧。

这种事情讲理，谁对谁错，一点用也没有。就算C是绿茶男又能怎么样，你有胆上门把他揍一顿或者报警把他抓起来？

changheruhailiu 发表于 2022-09-23 21:03

对的。楼主“追”心爱女人的方式是：不停地指责她，指责她不够爱他。

呵呵。也不想想：别人活该爱他？