I know that I am new here and This is my first experience to buy stuff here although I registered here for some time.
I agree with you that the seller has the right to choose the buyer. but she already chose me as a buyer although I am new here. this is the point.
I asked her whether it was still available, she said "yes" and asked me to pay to her paypal account. This means that she already agreed with this exchange and that she approved the contract.
if she wanted to sell it to other MM, she shouldn't have asked me to pay her. THis is the point. I spent time and energy following her messages and checking with her. I don't want to spend time or energy in trying to things I can never buy.
I don't want to continue this,but just want to give JJMM some advice to be thoughtful.
I accept her apology but also want to share this experience with other JJMM. Sorry that I didn't use Chinese since my office computer doesn't have Chinese version.
Thanks.