其实真的是一件小事情了, 呵呵......

进灰名单可不是那么容易的, this case is far from it.

换班以前有几位企图骗别人钱钱但是没有得逞被迫退钱的,才是灰名单ID(因为黑名单ID要求被投诉了仍然拒不退钱cai blacklist)

mm, I don't want to with you. You are right, but you just make me feeling bad.  I said it is my fault, I should not do this.  I just can not help being upset.

I am not Daigo for a living (as I told you before I am not a professional buyer for you).  I don't think if I accept $1 DAIGOU from you,  I should mail the polo as my first priority and make sure you get it, otherwise you have the right to question me, criticize me, and annoy me.  That's too much for $1 and it hurt.

By the way, I don't think you paid me DAIGOU. 

the polo is 9.99*0.75*1.0775=$8.07, postage is $2.54. total is $10.61.  you paid me $11.  There is only $0.49 left, it is barely enough to buy a decent envelope from store.  I made you the envelope by myself because I don't want to go to store to buy one.  I didn't ask for anything after I mailed it you.  It does not worth it. 

mm, please stop.  let everybody including you rest. 

sorry, I can not input Chinese here.

  I said you are right. mm.  I am not good at arguing with you.  Just whatever you want, I will try my best to satisfy you.  Could you please delete my paypal email? thanks.

不好意思，刚才没注意，只注意引用你的message了

现在这个问题我想不是你我之间的问题了。不管结果怎么样，我都不会再找你短信啥的了。

你刚才算的数学公式，我也没差你一分钱啊，所以我根本不是小偷啊

我们之间已经clear了，我付了钱，你发了衣服，我就等呗。我已经等了12天了，只要8月底能收到就好

刚才的几个帖子我是要告诉别人灰名单不是你说上就上的

mm, I don't want to with you. You are right, but you just make me feeling bad.  I said it is my fault, I should not do this.  I just can not help being upset.

I am not 代购 for a living (as I told you before I am not a professional buyer for you).  I don't think if I accept 1块钱代购费 from you,  I should mail the polo as my first priority and make sure you get it, otherwise you have the right to question me, criticize me, and annoy me,  it is too much. 1块钱代购费 does not give you the right to treat other people like that and it hurt.

By the way, I don't think you paid me DAIGOU. 

the polo is 9.99*0.75*1.0775=$8.07, postage is $2.54. total is $10.61.  you paid me $11.  There is only $0.49 left, it is barely enough to buy a decent envelope from store.  I made you the envelope by myself because I don't want to go to store to buy one.  I didn't ask for anything after I mailed it you.  It does not worth it. 

mm, please stop.  let everybody including you rest. 

sorry, I can not input Chinese here.

不用再争了了。这是一个互相信任的问题，就像卖家说她16号寄出而你不相信一样，那她除了shipping label是拿不出什么其他证据了啊。如果万一这个包裹真的在路上丢了，你是不是还要怀疑卖家是不是真的寄出了？“只要8月底能收到就好”，如果没收到呢？

这个灰名单也不是多大的事，都在各个mm自己心里，如果她们觉得将来跟你打交道有容易被贴大字报的风险，说不定就不愿意跟你打交道了啊。而且并不一定只有那几个说把你放到灰名单的mm这么想呢。

本来不想再回关于这个帖子的任何问题

但是忍不住还是要说两句

我又没占别人便宜，凭什么说我进灰名单？

那些说我进她们的灰名单的人是不是本身也有问题？

卖给别人东西不和别人打招呼，就拖两三个星期才寄，还好意思谴责别人？

你们以后不卖我东西，我还不会去买你们的东西呢。

关于这件事我知道的只有两个事实：

1 我从付款到现在，12天没收到东西

2 卖家给的dc只是paypal的dc打印时间，不是邮寄时间，再说卖家自己也说了她是去公司寄得，我想可能公司过了几天去邮局才寄的也不一定。

不管最后我何时会收到包裹，我也不想再回这个帖子了。

到底卖家何时寄的包裹现在已经没有任何意义了。

正如apple mm所说，我不想浪费时间再纠缠这个问题了。

反正我是说多错多，我说什么大家都能挑出刺来。

我不如不说。

mm，大家不过是觉得你有点太性急了，而且说话有点不好听。12天啊，怎么算也是不到两个星期还没有收到东西，怎么叫两三个星期都还没寄呢。这个差别有点大的。

mm，大家不过是觉得你有点太性急了，而且说话有点不好听。12天啊，怎么算也是不到两个星期还没有收到东西，怎么叫两三个星期都还没寄呢。这个差别有点大的。

As I said on your message, if  shipping fee is not enough, please let me know

 and also on you message ,

然后我为了抢到这个衣服，我就说我先付你11，不够再说。然后我们就一直没联系了，对吗

然后18号我给你两个短信，你也没回，到了20号我发的语气重了，你回了。然后就是昨天的一封短信了，是不是？

事情就是缺乏沟通，不是嘛，你我都有一定的责任。

anyway。我该说的都说了

上个星期13号我付款买了某个mm一件衣服，然后就一直等待包裹。后来到了周五，我就主动发信问这个mm有没有发货，如果没有的话我不想买了，等不及了。然后到了周日收到她的回信说她16号就寄了，而且他都是周末有空才shipping的。不是我的professional buyer。哪天我还在版上发帖子问到底有没有关于shipping日子的规定。因为我总在换版买东西，一般第二第三天就收到了。所以我每天check我的mail box数次等待包裹，非常着急。但是今天已经24号了，我还是没有收到。

我在换版买的另外一个加州mm的东西，她21号寄出的，23号我就收到了。只用了2天时间。16号到现在8天了，包裹踪影不见。而且我去usps网站上查，说16号不一定是她正真的mail out的时间

The U.S. Postal Service was electronically notified by the shipper on July 16, 2008 to expect your package for mailing. This does not indicate receipt by the USPS or the actual mailing date. Delivery status information will be provided if / when available. Information, if available, is updated every evening. Please check again later.

我感觉自己被骗了

同意,都有责任,

但是为什么大家的舆论导向买家呢?

你缺乏沟通的技巧