在俺滴心目中，求婚那是最最浪漫滴时刻，是一个女人一生中能得到滴最高称赞。而之后的订婚阶段就可以享受未婚妻这个美妙称呼了，瞧这词的法语小音儿多好听。

而婚礼反而不那么让我向往。谁说每个女人从小就幻想自己的婚礼，我就没有。而且还有点害怕很多人在一起看自己结婚。尤其看了sex and the city 里面说“the worse the wedding， the better the marriage”以后就对婚礼更不抱幻想了。我倒希望只有两个人的婚礼，婚姻本来就是两个人的事情么。

俺早就发话，不要钻戒，我胆小，怕戴丢了。别美，不是说这笔钱就全省了，因为我的wedding band一定要特别漂亮，因为要天天戴的。

a lot of rings come in sets now- some are designed so that the wedding band will fit around the engagement ring to create a multi-stone complete look.  It might make sense to look into these sets.  Besides, it is also tradition to wear both the engagement ring and band together- I was told by the minister to wear the band portion on the bottom as it is closer to the heart; then, engagement ring on top...