想选的课满了为什么不上来问？ 一般都有wait list,找教授说啊都能加的. Lz这些文科课又浪费时间又没什么用.而且因为你根本不懂，连发言都难，很难争取到积极的印象的

我建议drop两门课，w再难看也比退学强多了

何况就一学期，后面申请grad school根本不算什么。 这些课中国人积累太弱了，根本不是努力几天能行的. 这是二十年的积累.而且因为没有积累，写出来的东西很难对教授胃口，也很难积极表现.

Withdraw在成绩单上非常难看。楼主尽量挺过来吧。

我确实开始没想到PART TIME，一是觉得自己能行，二是学费不一样。


vivian_liang 发表于 1/29/2016 7:48:01 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1964596&postid=70602976#70602976][/url]

其实你可以先part time然后再转full time呀，这样也不会多出多少钱，也不会把自己逼的那么紧。

如果勉强修这些，不可能门门课都能拿好成绩. Gpa低了一样难看

看了下日历，过了28号drop 就是 W grade, 有影响吗？我真的就想drop两门
vivian_liang 发表于 1/29/2016 7:51:10 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1964596&postid=70603000#70603000][/url]

我觉得你在这里问没用，还是得去问学校。

我个人认为，你都被逼的要退学了，第一年W两门真的不算啥，先把这一个学期熬过去，下学期选课的时候灵活一点，就挽回来了。

我曾经被老板忽悠上一门communication课（他朋友开的），从做project临时改为采访写书，我要写两个chapter. 可以说一门课就搞死我了。差点被骂死。 人家叫我去writing lab， 那里人根本一点不靠谱好嘛。 人哪有时间仔仔细细给你一个人改啊。一共五个人写书，老美都被折磨够呛

本科gpa绝对比有没有w重要多了，人家为会员的哪有时间看你有几个w，吸取教训下学期早点选课吧

如果勉强修这些，不可能门门课都能拿好成绩. Gpa低了一样难看
抹茶红豆包 发表于 1/29/2016 8:17:12 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1964596&postid=70603264#70603264][/url]

对啊，W再难看也比F好看吧

我真的不知道怎么办了，不聪明，人格缺陷，懒惰都已经形成了，我最近两个礼拜，头痛失眠，就是没有承受压力的肩膀。在社大都是班上一二名，数学编程都是满分的时候多，现在坐在这里泪如雨下，一会看到留言觉得还有希望，一会觉得没有希望，想到放弃就不用面对压力是心理又觉得轻松，一分钟之后又觉得自己没用，举棋不定。

也在社区大学上课，原来认为会很容易，原来在国内也算学霸， 结果被无数的作业和quiz midterm搞的头大， 美国的本科不好读啊，感觉能毕业的人都不容易
calicali 发表于 1/29/2016 8:01:55 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1964596&postid=70603113#70603113][/url]

其实美国本科根本不难，是破事很多，不断地考试，小作业，关键是安排好时间。group project找对人很重要

你用对待国内高中的态度对待美国本科就行了，essay就是政治历史论述题，找对点展开，一般5点要求中3点这样的

苦的话 感觉还好。之前自己东奔西走。学到凌晨4点。 不过是不是意义就很重要了。学的科目是不是自己钟爱的。或者 适合找工作创收的。 要不然就是很多很多爱。要不然就是很多很多钱

我真的不知道怎么办了，不聪明，人格缺陷，懒惰都已经形成了，我最近两个礼拜，头痛失眠，就是没有承受压力的肩膀。在社大都是班上一二名，数学编程都是满分的时候多，现在坐在这里泪如雨下，一会看到留言觉得还有希望，一会觉得没有希望，想到放弃就不用面对压力是心理又觉得轻松，一分钟之后又觉得自己没用，举棋不定。
vivian_liang 发表于 1/29/2016 8:24:33 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1964596&postid=70603337#70603337][/url]

你真的不要紧张，这些文科课程需要投其所好的。比如性别这个吧，写journal entry的，你找找样本看看，然后就依葫芦画瓢呗

舍得花点钱请editor修改，如果能帮助你渡过难关早点毕业的话

不喜欢就不读，干嘛非做自己不喜欢的事情。青春就几年，高兴才是王道，干脆别学了。

不喜欢就不读，干嘛非做自己不喜欢的事情。青春就几年，高兴才是王道，干脆别学了。
dlzsjy 发表于 1/29/2016 8:34:43 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1964596&postid=70603442#70603442][/url]

青春后咋办啊？等着天上掉馅饼？

不喜欢文科就转科系吧 何必这样逼自己

到底什么是depression? 界限在哪？vivian_liang 发表于 2016-01-29 20:39 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1964596&postid=70596012#70596012][/url]

这算点什么事啊，昨天我们一个同学还说她三天没睡觉了呢，人一辈子往前走就有希望，打过一次退堂鼓，就很难说第二次不会。。。坚持吧

It seems that I can't drop two classes. Request to Become a Part-time Student Print Email Rutgers is a full-time institution; therefore, part-time status is reserved only for independent students or students in their last semester who need less than 12 credits to complete their degree. Requests for part-time attendance must be made before the beginning of the semester. Any request made after the semester has commenced will be considered for the following semester. If you meet one of the criteria described below, you may request part-time status. Seniors entering their last semester Seniors in their final semester who need less than 12 credits to graduate are eligible to register for only the credits that they need to complete their degree. No paperwork is needed. Students simply need to register for only the courses that are needed to graduate. If a course is added that the student does not need, the student will need assistance with dropping the course. Registration changes that bring a student below 12 credits must be done in person at an SAS Advising Center. Please note that this must be done by the end of the first week of classes. Students will not be able to drop below 12 credits after the Drop without a W period ends (see the Registration page for exact dates), even if the student does not need the course to graduate. All other students requesting part time Students (who are not seniors in their last semester) who would like to be considered for part-time status must provide copies of the following documents to the Office for Nontraditional Students and Special Populations: 1) a Financial Aid statement indicating independent status or 2) a copy of a lease with their name on it and a current 1040 tax statement indicating they claim themselves. Without this documented proof, a student cannot qualify for part-time status. The decision to register for less than 12 credits and become a part-time student often has significant implications for the student's financial aid, health insurance coverage, housing, scholarship eligibility, and the like. Students must consult with an academic adviser familiar with these issues before submitting a request for part-time status. To request to become a part-time student, please email Dean Arroyo. Extenuating Medical Circumstances Students with extenuating medical circumstances should consult with the Dean of Students who will communicate with Dean Arroyo to determine if part-time status is warranted. In the event that part-time status is approved, it will be for only one semester. Students on Academic Warning or Academic Probation Students with academic standing difficulty should meet with an academic adviser before considering taking less than 12 credits, even if they qualify. International Students International Students are required to maintain full-time status, except potentially in the final semester before graduation. Additional information can be found on the Center for International Faculty and Student Services website. For More Information For more information about registration policies, please visit the Registration and Course Policies page.

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1964596&postid=70603337#70603337]91楼vivian_liang的帖子[/url] 我是人文类出身。 这些课需要大量的阅读，专业写作。 从长远来说，对以后的职业发展有利无害，特别是职位越高的越需要的这样的训练。 但是并不是每个人都适合或者喜欢这些专业，有的人读都读不下去，更不可能写了。 我就喜欢读这些，所以会很轻松，很喜欢自己的专业。人文类更需要积累和sense，上面也有人说了，别人是积累了20多年的，外国人不能比。这个是对的，人文了拼语言，拼写作，拼逻辑，拼知识深广...... lz读的类，还是建议放弃。 即使苦读，最后F了，更是难过