（干货都没了）从online dating说到bloody gorgeous Harvey!-第295页

treeside

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Mark Mark

treeside

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Mark Mark

chacha1314

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回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1222855&postid=47679336#47679336]1楼cute-wheat的帖子[/url] mark!

HappyCindy.everyday

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Thank you, cute-wheat! Just purchased a full size Revive system through your link! :-) :-) Thank Startover2016 for sharing the promotion code! It still works! :-) Cute-wheat, admire your courage and strength. Thank you for sharing the insights on dating and love life! My silly PC could not type Chinese. Have to put up with my poor English then. I will follow your guide to start over in 2016 too! :-))

ynzyzy

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blabla333

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最近还有mm提供书单吗？

blabla333

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最近还有mm提供书单吗？

奔跑的蚂蚁

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谢谢lz分享

ynzyzy

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楼主好棒，喜欢这样聪慧，拎得清的姑娘，关键还很善良和大家分享这些。我是全部看完才来发表的，一个帖子可以坚持这么久，真的不容易。我和楼主年龄差不多，但情商什么的真是有待继续提高。我是今年刚从另一个地方搬到湾区，刚开始约会了几个月后心态不太好的时候看到cute的帖子，帮到我很多，最关键的是现在心态好多了，谢谢你！祝一切顺利！

zyzcsl

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写作简洁的确很重要, mm们不介意的话分享一篇几个podcast都有推荐的文章。

The Day You Became A Better Writer

by Scot Adams

I went from being a bad writer to a good writer after taking a one-day course in “business writing.” I couldn’t believe how simple it was. I’ll tell you the main tricks here so you don’t have to waste a day in class.

Business writing is about clarity and persuasion. The main technique is keeping things simple. Simple writing is persuasive. A good argument in five sentences will sway more people than a brilliant argument in a hundred sentences. Don’t fight it.

Simple means getting rid of extra words. Don’t write, “He was very happy” when you can write “He was happy.” You think the word “very” adds something. It doesn’t. Prune your sentences.

Humor writing is a lot like business writing. It needs to be simple. The main difference is in the choice of words. For humor, don’t say “drink” when you can say “swill.”

Your first sentence needs to grab the reader. Go back and read my first sentence to this post. I rewrote it a dozen times. It makes you curious. That’s the key.

Write short sentences. Avoid putting multiple thoughts in one sentence. Readers aren’t as smart as you’d think.

Learn how brains organize ideas. Readers comprehend “the boy hit the ball” quicker than “the ball was hit by the boy.” Both sentences mean the same, but it’s easier to imagine the object (the boy) before the action (the hitting). All brains work that way. (Notice I didn’t say, “That is the way all brains work”?)

That’s it. You just learned 80% of the rules of good writing. You’re welcome.
sai 发表于 4/9/2016 6:58:19 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1222855&postid=71356012#71356012][/url]

zyzcsl

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<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px">当一个男人同时对两个女孩子有好感时，他更爱谁取决于谁更不爱他。——韩寒这是传说中的犯贱心理学么
<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"> 
<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px">男人不能原谅女人身体出轨，女人不能原谅男人精神出轨。男人更注重对女人身体的独占欲，女人更看重对男人心灵的占有。女人可以接受有故事<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px">的男人，男人普遍不爱有故事的女人。
<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"> 
<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px">从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问别人想不想你，爱不爱你？若是要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，别人会很骄傲和不在乎你。不要过份在意一些人，过份在乎一些事，顺其自然，以最佳的心态面对，这个世界就是这样：往往在最在乎的事物面前，我们最没有价值。
<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"> 
<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px">遇到你真正爱的人时：要努力争取和他相伴一生的机会。因为当他离去时，一切都来不及了；遇到可相信的朋友时：要好好和他相处下去。因为在人的一生中，可遇到知己真的不易；遇到曾经爱过的人时：记得微笑向他感激，因为他是曾经让你更懂爱的人。--- i can relate to the say with every fiber of my being
<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"> 
<span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 13px="13px" /21px Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: pre-wrap; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(17,17,17); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px"><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; LETTER-SPACING: normal; DISPLAY: inline="inline" !important; FONT: 14px="14px" /28px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; FLOAT: none; COLOR: rgb(51,51,51); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px">跟异性来往最重要的不是他有多好，而是他对你有多好。
cute-wheat 发表于 8/21/2013 3:51:00 AM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1222855&postid=48862817#48862817][/url]

balletwawa

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let me see.

balletwawa

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hlol let me see

weiyu20009

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mark，回来追

yanjiaomeishao

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马克刷魅力

waterbird

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就想顶一下这个贴，其实最近每天都过一遍前两页。顶下可以方便自己看：），而且本版第一页好多问题可以直接在本楼1、2页找到答案。越读越觉得小麦mm剔透，真的好多问题都先料到了，解决方案也都先放在那儿了，只等有缘人发现。再次谢过。

qingmu

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我是进来看Harvey的。太长了，没找到。

taomix

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回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1222855&postid=47679336#47679336]1楼cute-wheat的帖子[/url] mark 一下

huqrjennifer

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“”很多时候，被分手，大家选择挽留，我能理解。你说你很爱他吧，其实不见得。那到底是什么在作怪？你的自尊心。你不甘做被甩的那位。你怎么都想不通他凭啥能甩了你。所以即使你知道你俩最终不会work out, 你下意识里还会去挽留。妹子，当你想这么做前，先清醒的想想，这到底值不值得。你已经失掉一次颜面了，难道还要求着他回来然后被告知没戏，看着自己再次失掉一次尊严？不要那么傻。如果你真心知道他不会是对的人，就大大方方的放手。就算被分手，我也要有我的尊严。其实，你该感激他，他帮你做了一个你很难做但又必须做的决定-离开你，让你有机会有时间去认识那个对的人。你应该开心，你应该感激他。感激他的离开。“” 讲的简直太对了。每次分手，我都会回忆之前的好的回忆，然后觉得算了吧，还要重新认识人再来过，好麻烦，要么凑合凑合算了。直到搞到最后无法收场。

xiaoxuesheng

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最近小麦mm还收徒弟吗,读到1676楼,太有体会了,很想问问自己的情况